| Before  
                    Taking Charge | 
                  Now | 
                
                 
                  I 
                    was very dysfunctional. 
                    Had no way of dealing with unpleasant situations and people. | 
                  I 
                    feel very confident about handling difficult situations & 
                    people. 
                    I have gained knowledge plus inner peace. | 
                
                 
                  I 
                    never realized I had power over my symptoms, let alone my 
                    illness. 
                    Ive been suicidal and depressed and felt hopeless. | 
                  I 
                    still struggle yet seldom consider dying as a way out.  
                    I take responsibility for my illness and behavior and no longer 
                    blame my life for who I am or how I am.  
                    I feel hopeful and capable. | 
                
                 
                  | I 
                    used to work things up and get suicidal, also work up to a 
                    relapse of alcohol. | 
                  I 
                    stop my thinking when I get the bad feelings and repeat my 
                    coping tools. 
                    People do things that annoy us, not to annoy us. | 
                
                 
                  I 
                    was depressed, didnt think clearly. 
                    I would cry a lot.  
                    Everyone around me grew tired & fed up with me. 
                    I was my own worst enemy. | 
                  Im 
                    feeling more positive than Ive been in the past and 
                    Im trying to be a better friend to myself and others. | 
                
                 
                  I 
                    had low self-esteem of myself. 
                    Felt I wasnt good enough on handling things. | 
                  Im 
                    not afraid to speak out for myself. |